I was thinking how drawing sense of self from our own behavior can make us blind to solutions or ways to improve the quality of our own life. We think this is who I am and refuse to change behavior or patterns that are detrimental to us. no?
is marriage still necessary?
I have been thinking about marriage for a while now, and cant help but think that its pretty unnecessary at this point of time.. People have babies regardless of if they are married, people get divorced, a lot happens! Marriage used to be extremely important in older days, and for some people and cultures it still is very important. I just think t... Read more
A single word from her can make it all go away
Happens every time. A single word from her can make all the mental pain just go away so easily.
Im going back and for with this person
Its like a swing, i distance myself from them, then i swing back and try and get closer. Everytime its the same, i say this is it, that im not doing this again, and then it happens agains. Do i not have the power to actually do it, or maybe i dont have the will? I want to end this, but i find myself continuosly swinging right back into it.
Do i really feel what i feel, or is it being amplified?
I thought about the possibility that perhaps things that i think i feel towards someone, the good and bad, are being amplified by everything else that`s going on in my life. The thought is that i am taking everything that is happening to me, all of my feelings, and focusing all of that emotion and energy into this one area of my life, so what ever... Read more
I think im done with the past
At least with one part of it. I had some time to think about things today, and i feel that i can now let go of a part of my past that i wasn't quite ready to until now. This isn't me letting go of the person this is about, rather, its me letting go of the relationship i had with that person, and allowing a new relationship to form, a better one. ... Read more
Its nit that i didnt expect it to come, it knew it would, but it still hurts, at least i feel im handeling it right..
Have you ever not wanted your ex to move on? Not in a bad way or anything, but just deep down inside you hope your ex would never move on so that there will always still be a place for you? Maybe its out of fear for being left behind..
have you ever met someone that you really wanted to be with? more than just wanting, you felt you need to be with, even though you are in a relationship? Its happened to me before, and while i didn't do anything with this person, i had this immense feeling as if i missed out on something incredible, that it wasn't just about being with that person... Read more