What are the things you value most about a person?

I value trust and honesty a lot

One is for them to be able to actually understand me, and I them. I have been in relationships in the past where I constantly heard "I don't understand you..". This was said to me because of my thoughts, my actions, decisions, and generally the words I chose to say and the way I chose to say them. Talking with other people though was m... Read more

If, when I speak to someone, they choose to react, or to listen. Most of us just react when we are spoken to, it's become difficult to turn off the auto-react mode in our minds and to just listen to what the other person is saying and meaning. When I speak to someone and can see and feel that they are actually listening, and not just coming u... Read more

Their personality. If they are kind and cheerful they will show it without even realizing. They enjoy seeing others happy and bringing their mood up no matter who it is. People with poor attitudes tend to share common qualities. Enjoy making people angry for no reason. Attacking people with unwarranted comments. Saying they want to beat you up... Read more

Their intentions. Even though people may end up doing things that I find wrong, bad, mean, insulting, inappropriate, I always find it important to listen to the persons intentions, it can change the whole picture. This is for sure not a free pass to do anything and all will be forgiven, but, at the minimum, I think its important to understand wh... Read more