Ok so I meet this guy last spring he was funny cool and very charming. We hit it off real good. He even introduced me to his younger son. In time we had intercourse and it was good. We would always make time to see one another during the week. He told me he loved me 3 months ago but I couldn't say it back to him because we were just having sex... Read more

is trying to find yourself by not being yourself a good way of finding yourself?

why is working hard prioritized so much. Why is it above being balanced? Why is someone working not bothered with other things that require priority?

I was thinking how drawing sense of self from our own behavior can make us blind to solutions or ways to improve the quality of our own life. We think this is who I am and refuse to change behavior or patterns that are detrimental to us. no?
