We assume the worst
It has become a habit for people to assume the worst. They could see a portion of an article, a sentence really, and from just that alone come up with a whole story as to what actually happened, based on that one sentence alone. Usually, the story they come up with is not a good one, especially if it concerns themselves. If it has to do with them,... Read more
There must be a balance
Loneliness at times seems amazing, it seems exactly what you you think you want, to the point where you just want to leave everything behind and to go out on a quest to find ultimate loneliness. Then, when you do it and you actually find that loneliness, you learn that its not what you want at all and that you just feel sad and alone. Stories like... Read more
Family is not only that group of people that were at the hospital the day you were born, or the people waiting at home to meet you for the first time, nor is family only those who where born with a blood relation to you later in life. In my travels I have come to the realization that family is something that you can acquire, family is based on the... Read more
We let others get to us way too easily
Something that i truly believe is that we are in charge of our own lives. Sure, there are things that happen that we do not decide or have control over, these things may have been decided by people long ago or from past events that occurred way before our time, but those are just the cards we were dealt, its completely up to us how we play our hand... Read more
5 things I learned while being on the road
I unfortunately haven't had too many options to go out on a long adventure, and by long i mean a period of a few months at least. Life just got in the way and didn't really leave room for it. Things are different now though, life changed, things changed, and i have had the time to travel for an extended period of time, and as much as i loved the f... Read more
Doing things you think you cant do
I`m not a blogger or a writer, but i decided that ill starting posting on this website and see how it goes. I`m not really expecting much in terms of feedback, i just wanted a place i can be open in and say everything on my mind. If you would ask me if i could write blog posts or anything like that, i would have probably said no, i cannot, really,... Read more
Do i really feel what i feel, or is it being amplified?
I thought about the possibility that perhaps things that i think i feel towards someone, the good and bad, are being amplified by everything else that`s going on in my life. The thought is that i am taking everything that is happening to me, all of my feelings, and focusing all of that emotion and energy into this one area of my life, so what ever... Read more
Finding some quiet time
Sometimes i find it so hard to find some quiet time, time that i need to reflect and think about everything that is going on and to clear my thoughts and to calm down, and when i actually do find the time, i realize that it was actually quite easy to do and that even a short amount of time can bring good results and that i actually had many opportu... Read more
The amazing effect of music
Music can have such an amazing and unique effect on us, for me, it can take me through every emotional state i have been in. It can calm me down, it can get me excited, motivated, happy, reminiscent, even upset - especially if its something i don't particularly like! Throughout my life i have had different stages of music, i have had the rock stag... Read more
What would be your answer if it could be anything in the world
Here's a thought: A vampire with the ability to compel you to do anything it says asks you the following question before it kills you: "What is the last thing you want to do? You can choose anything you want to do, anything at all, and i will compel you to do it." What would be your answer? I still don't know mine..
Sometimes you work so hard to get somewhere, to achieve something, thinking it will bring you so much happiness, but when you actually achieve what ever it is or get to where ever you wanted, you find out that it does not give you as much happiness as you thought it would. Sometimes its just the thought of that accomplishment that gets you excited... Read more
What if our dreams are true stories?
What if our dreams are actually true stories that happened in the past or are happening to someone else now? Maybe they seem so wierd sometimes because they arent transmitted to us 100% successfully, so we get these wierd situations where we live under water... Or maybe we did live under water in the past? Maybe its us dreaming the lives of a sea ... Read more