We will never truly know and it will alway be a mystery. No matter how much we know someone and their intentions, we are still different in their eyes. Where you see flaws they see bursary and vice versa.
Like have you ever had a dream about someone? And that someone appeared much more different in real life than your dreams. Like you know they are the same person but they seem different, maybe more cooler or attractive than reality
I would just try to be a risk taker more. I have let people walk over me and my family, missing the opportunities I could have used to escape
Their personality. If they are kind and cheerful they will show it without even realizing. They enjoy seeing others happy and bringing their mood up no matter who it is.
People with poor attitudes tend to share common qualities. Enjoy making people angry for no reason. Attacking people with unwarranted comments. Saying they want to beat you up randomly. Lying, blaming people.(You know who you are)
I genuinely believe your mood reflects who you are. If your around successful people all the time your chances of becoming successful are increased. And the same goes for happiness and personality.