To become self employed. I have been working towards this for a while, and I am finally in a place where things are progressing, slowly, but still progressing.
One is for them to be able to actually understand me, and I them.
I have been in relationships in the past where I constantly heard "I don't understand you..".
This was said to me because of my thoughts, my actions, decisions, and generally the words I chose to say and the way I chose to say them.
Talking with other people though was much easier, they understood me, and even if they didn't agree with me, they were still able to understand my point and where I was coming from.
Another value is the ability to understand when mistakes were made and to admit when we are wrong.
Rather than just arguing and being stubborn about mistakes that were made, I appreciate the ability that people have to admit when they are wrong.
I know this isn't always easy, its not easy for me either, but even working trying to improve that is important to me.
Which brings me to the next value - improvement.
I absolutely love it when people try to improve themselves. Not because I necessarily think they need to change or improve themselves, but because it shows a certain humility about a person who is willing and able to accept that some things may need to be improved about themselves.
Its when people don't try to change things or improve things that, at least I believe, life gets a little bit stale.
We are so focused on the bigger things, on the bigger picture, that we forget to enjoy the small moments in life that help shape our days.
I try to be calm and patient with people. You never know where the other person is coming from and what hardships they have in life, so I always try to keep this in mind when speaking with others or confronting others. Especially in situations where the conversation can lead to arguments and to more negative directions.
I believe that being more understanding, and trying to listen to others rather than to just respond and react can lead to a better world if everyone were more mindful of this. People would understand each other better.
In my mind I do, but not really as much as would actually benefit me.
It also depends on when and what.
Someone else here mentioned that its easy to say all the right things, but doing them is another story.
I cannot agree with this more.
Sometimes we know what to do, but just can't.
Depends on the debate!
We should live in reality and in the present moment, but, sometimes escaping into imagination is just too tempting, the possibilities are truly endless there.
I think that our imagination can be used as an escape from reality at times.
It can also motivate us through the stories we come up with.
