What are the things you value most about a person?

If, when I speak to someone, they choose to react, or to listen.

Most of us just react when we are spoken to, it's become difficult to turn off the auto-react mode in our minds and to just listen to what the other person is saying and meaning.

When I speak to someone and can see and feel that they are actually listening, and not just coming up with responses and reactions to what am I saying, is what I really value in people.

Communication is important, but sometimes it requires us to not say a word, but to just listen.